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Written by AMANDA SOARES DA SILVA MENDES on 11. Februar 2010:

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When single, weighed 65 pounds, had a body type guitar and was much harassed by the boys at the time, I think even because of my education.
I married early, at age 18 and 19 had expected my first child and hardly engordei.Tive much nausea, but soon after his birth I started to gain weight.
Dieted and lost weight a little and then gained weight again and it was four years ago when pregnant with my second child. I had pre-eclampsia (high blood pressure during pregnancy) and I was huge, mixing the swelling and fat.
That is, until when my youngest son turned 14, was already exhausted by being a housewife, lived without stimuli, without joy, when I decided to go back to school ... I enrolled in a course of practical nurse, when I entered the room class realize that all the girls looked at me look like a joke, making light of it.
But when the teacher asked us to present it, I was very clear to all that said I had no fat in the brain and so they would have to get used to me because it would not kill me with mockery and would tear - and they did.
I won the respect and admiration of them, finished to help and I have been doing just the course of nursing technique and as I was finishing the course find employment in a national company agreements, went to work at the clinic of an industry where I did another course - "nursing work".
My life changed, I began to accept myself the way I was - "fat" - talked a lot with people and earning the sympathy, I was feeling someone else, I love me, I started to get me, buy clothes, shoes, took care of the hair and went flawlessly. During this period a time to ask my husband, who at that time knew only offend me when we fought, always loved, but wanted a gap, actually wanted to teach him a lesson because every disagreement I heard .... "His fat whale suckling "and other adjectives. So I decided to pay the entrance exam to test my knowledge, I escondidinho of all because I was afraid of being rejected, but to my surprise I was approved . I was happily and called my husband who was working and living in another city, said he was happy because she had passed the entrance exam but knew that with my income could not attend . But I was feeling victorious, to my surprise, he offered to pay my college - it was where I started a new stage in my life, turned academic nursing and now we are together again, I left my job of six years and my hometown, parents, home and came to live with it in Jundiaí, I'm in the last year and still fat, but today I love the way I am and I am.
My sons is very proud of me and people around me got used to my way of being and respect me too.
I can say to all the chubby not give up and not stay trapped in their homes - Run, spring into action, overcome prejudice, love it! Only way you'll attract good things.

When single, weighed 65 pounds, had a body type guitar and was much harassed by the boys at the time, I think even because of my education.
I married early, at age 18 and 19 had expected my first child and hardly engordei.Tive much nausea, but soon after his birth I started to gain weight.
Dieted and lost weight a little and then gained weight again and it was four years ago when pregnant with my second child. I had pre-eclampsia (high blood pressure during pregnancy) and I was huge, mixing the swelling and fat.
That is, until when my youngest son turned 14, was already exhausted by being a housewife, lived without stimuli, without joy, when I decided to go back to school ... I enrolled in a course of practical nurse, when I entered the room class realize that all the girls looked at me look like a joke, making light of it.
But when the teacher asked us to present it, I was very clear to all that said I had no fat in the brain and so they would have to get used to me because it would not kill me with mockery and would tear - and they did.
I won the respect and admiration of them, finished to help and I have been doing just the course of nursing technique and as I was finishing the course find employment in a national company agreements, went to work at the clinic of an industry where I did another course - "nursing work".
My life changed, I began to accept myself the way I was - "fat" - talked a lot with people and earning the sympathy, I was feeling someone else, I love me, I started to get me, buy clothes, shoes, took care of the hair and went flawlessly. During this period a time to ask my husband, who at that time knew only offend me when we fought, always loved, but wanted a gap, actually wanted to teach him a lesson because every disagreement I heard .... "His fat whale suckling "and other adjectives. So I decided to pay the entrance exam to test my knowledge, I escondidinho of all because I was afraid of being rejected, but to my surprise I was approved. I was happily and called my husband who was working and living in another city, said he was happy because she had passed the entrance exam but knew that with my income could not attend. But I was feeling victorious, to my surprise, he offered to pay my college - it was where I started a new stage in my life, turned academic nursing and now we are together again, I left my job of six years and my hometown, parents, home and came to live with it in Jundiaí, I'm in the last year and still fat, but today I love the way I am and I am.
My sons is very proud of me and people around me got used to my way of being and respect me too.
I can say to all the chubby not give up and not stay trapped in their homes - Run, spring into action, overcome prejudice, love it! Only way you'll attract good things.